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My boyfriend is in love with my boobs, but is he in love with me?

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Question - (3 January 2017) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2017)
A female Ireland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Is it normal for a guy to be TOTALLY fixated on breasts?. I know guys like them, but my bf is totally fixated with my breasts. It might sound like a womans best dream, but when he cums he dosnt want to just cum normally, like any other man. he enjoys cuming over them, fondling them sucking them . That is all he seems to want to do.!!! The trouble is I feel like he isnt wanting to think about me and what I want/like, if you see what I mean.I have had guys comment on my figure ever since I was a teenager I have had large breasts and so am used to them being noticed/ commented on. Naturally I can understand what the fasination might be and YES I like it when they are touched and played with but since he is in his 30's I would have thought the novelity would have worn off. I mean, it is not as if I am freaking out when he does it, its just in my mind worried if he is totally normal. Will he calm down ?. I just dont understand why he pulls out and wants to do it over them thats all, nothing more.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2017):

I think I know how you feel, I was with a man who was obsessed with my ass. It was great at first, but got tiring fast. Actually it got down right insulting as that was the main thing he would pay attention to during bed. I finally made a comment about how that was the only thing he ever cared about, and stormed out. After that he was more careful to give me the full body experience LOL. Maybe you just need to set him straight.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2017):

I think he is deff a boob man through and through. Does he enjoy intercourse when you are making love ? or is it more to an end eg cuming over your big breasts?. You could always try as a starting point let him say have a naughty tit wank then say "right time to make me cum and since has already had his fun he might also last longer (bonus for you) Also you could use it as a bargaining chip in the future eg ... only when you have been satisfied will you permit him to indulge in his fantasy. Perhaps he might like it if you treated him as a slave, or tease him by telling him how naughty he is that he wants to do that .some guys love it if the woman is in control just saying. GOOD LUCK

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2017):

N91 agony auntSome people just really like boobs. Same as others liking bums, legs, feet. I don't think it's anything to worry about really.

Does he make sure you're satisfied during sex? Or literally take care of himself then that's it? Because then it's a problem and he's quite selfish.

If there's no other problems I wouldn't really worry about this.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2017):

It's Alright. Not like he has some weird foot fetish or cross dressing fantasies or even into weird BDSM stuff. He's a man, you're a woman, he's appreciating your womanhood. Boobs turn him on more than anything else in a woman. Nothing is wrong here. Some men are obsessed with ass too. Novelty wears off does not mean interest should wear off. Just like he's still excited about sex, he's still excited about boobs.

Maybe suggest that you want him to cum inside you occasionally or whatever it is that you want him to do! If he's normal in all walks of life, nothing to worry about. If and when you notice something extremely unusual or abnormal, you can start feeling worried. As of now, enjoy!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2017):

If someone is making you feel uncomfortable then it's time to cool things a bit. He sounds like a guy that is living his fantasy probably based on porn. Your breasts should be one element of his physical attraction to you not the whole 'relationship'. I wouldn't give this guy much longer to present a better and more rounded (excuse the pun) approach to you the person.

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