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writes:I found out that my long term ( 6 years) boyfriend is a sex addict, that he has been frequenting "cruise areas for sex" and "glory holes" I found out he has made "friends" with a couple close to where he lives for "sex" that he met while cruising an adult book store and arcade in Bremerton. He was furious that I found out more than he was remorseful and seems to want to protect this couple more than feel bad about betraying me. Now, he is a medical professional, knows better, now he doesn't want to lose me or break up, but I am so upset, grieved and angry that he could lead such a double life. Does he ever think that he just might run into a former patient or been seen by colleges running around town late at night? He goes to their boat in a public marina to have sex with both of them. I am disgusted at the thought of him having oral sex with this man or whatever and then having sex with his wife. What the.... and then acting normal with me? The man has even been in the paper with a full color article complaining about lack of parking in the marina, he is far from attractive, I just don't get it. HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): I understand where you are coming from...when a person is not educated on what a healthy relationship is and what the red flags are, this sort of thing can catch you "off guard"--I have been there.
You have got to decide what you are going to do...if you stay, please, please, please, use PROTECTION.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSometimes when crazy things happen to you that are so out there, you lose sight of what is "normal" and "right" and "respectful". I did not see this coming.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): He is a dishonest liar, and cares more that he got caught, and about losing the other couple than he does about your feelings or relationship. No remorse = no reason to stay with this guy. Its that simple.
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reader, krunkqueen  +, writes (30 July 2010):
wooooowo .. Iam sorry you had to find this out I to found out not to long ago that my current boyfriend recieved oral from a male when he was a teenager , and it devastated me that he never told me this, i had to find out from his cousin, well this is a lil more complicated, dont let him keep doing this to you.. I mean unless your ok with it which Iam sure you are not.sometimes people do crazy things when it comes to sexual pleasure , maybe you should talk to him about getting help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): Just leave this guy already...of course it will be hard because, you probably love him deeply..more so than he loves you IF he loves you.
Your bf doesn't care and you have to get to the point where you don't care and walk away from the guy. You don't reward a person for bad behavior. If that couple wants have sex with others THAT IS THEM, but if I were you, I would not agree to join your bf on his sexual "rides." He is putting you at risk for some sort of STD. If this guy is in his 40's the chances of him changing his ways is slim to none.
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