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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend goes to parties and takes pictures with girls that I do not like and dont have the best reputations, their sluts. He as he arms around them and they always include one girl inparticular, this same girl I think has feelings for him and at the most recent party, started rumors about me and was yet again in these pictures. He says that he has no feelings for these girls whatsoever and that their nothing, but they really piss me off and hurt me. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (2 March 2011):
 Have you told your boyfriend that it upsets you when he takes these pictures with these girls even if he says they're nothing? If they're nothing, then why can't he just stop taking his picture with them if it's not a big deal? Especially since they purposely hurt you and spread rumors about you.
I don't miss my teen years at all, so much drama and stupid people. If you bf can't respect how you feel on the subject and stop hanging out with these girls (especially at parties) then I would dump him. You're young (i know you probably hate hearing that, but you are) and you will find someone who will respect how you feel if this boy doesn't.
I'm sure he wouldn't be comfortable with you doing the same things with boys that were spreading rumors about him or making people question his manliness.
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