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My boyfriend flirts with other girls without realizing it?

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Question - (6 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *orrely writes:

this is a huge problem with us. we have been going out for almost 11 months, and we really care about each other, but he doesnt realize that he flirts with girls. they flirt with him and he doesnt realize it and flirts back, and we have talked about it and he tries to change but he doesnt even know how to. advice, please?

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2010):

petina1 agony auntLet him know to tone it down. He could be playing a game to get you jealous. He has obviously over stepped the mark if a girl has fallen for him over it.

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A female reader, sorrely United States +, writes (7 November 2010):

sorrely is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you. You're right, I should enjoy it while I can, but that feeling I get when i see him flirting with another girl tears me up inside. I have nothing to worry about, but other people have noticed too, and i have talked to him about it before. In fact, last year a girl started liking him because she misinterpreted his over-friendliness. I really care about him though, and I wouldn't ask him to change for me, I just cannot bear that feeling in the pit of my stomache.. :(

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (7 November 2010):

petina1 agony auntHe sounds like a pleasant guy. If he doesnt realize it, maybe its a bit of paranoia coming from you. He's been with you for 11 months so don't worry about it, he's just a happy guy,not a player. Enjoy him and don't try to change him to suit you. Unless of course you have something to worry about. Young people like to be happy and popular. He will settle down when things come along that make you change and that happens to most of us so enjoy your youth while you can because it gets much harder when responsibilities take over, trust me.

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