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writes:my boyfriend who i know a year and a half but dating him for the last year is very very very jeoulus of my best guy friend who i know 8years me and my best friend are very good friends we go shopping together and go to college together we are best friends for last 8years and my boyfriend hates him for no reason why cant he trust me i love my bf i dont have any feelings for my best freind who i think is gay by the way but my bf is still jeolous of my gay friends.waht do i do???
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reader, Collaroy  + ♥, writes (31 October 2007):
 Hi,
I would play up the gay angle with your boyfriend, he is probably feeling left out by the fact that your friend connects with you on so many levels - the shopping etc.
So If your boyfriend is convinced that your mate is gay ( lets face it he has all the symptoms no? :-) he should be able to deal with it. If he still gets upset that you hang out with this guy, this is another issue, its about control and his inability to let you lead your own life.
Weigh it all up and good luck!
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 You must always show your b/f that he counts and you want only him. Make him your number 1 priority in your outside relationships. Have the best friend spend time once in a while with you and your b/f. Let them get to know one another better. Let your b/f see firsthand that you have a loving relationship with him but only in a friendship way. You could try setting the best friend up with a date. That might help him to see what your intentions are.
Oh yeah! Did I mention LOTS OF ATTENTION for the b/f?*LOL* He is probably feeling a wee bit jealous and may feel a bit like he could be loosing you. Help him to see that you are with the man you want.
May God help you both to deal with this situation and may the 3 of you become the best of friends. Remember that your b/f is really your BEST FRIEND..take it from there.
God bless.
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reader, Helhel  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 I think that you bf just loves you very much and doesn't want to loose you.
Assure him that he is the only one for you and that your best friend is no threat whatsoever. Try paying just that little bit more attention to your bf than your best friend. He will feel more loved and more secure withine the relationship. Good luck
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