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My boyfriend cheated on me... with a guy.

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Question - (28 November 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2007)
A female United States age 16-17, *aniegirl writes:

so, i had a boyfriend and it was going really well...except for the fact that i thought he was gay, he was extremely sweet, borderline genius, and had an incredible bod. he calls me one day and tells me hes so sorry blah blah blah, so i tell him i wont get mad just tell me whats wrong. he tells me about the day before when he had had anal and oral sex with one of his friends...this friend was also a guy...he denied that he was gay and blamed it on his grandfather dying the day before that and thought i was being immature by dumping him. he said i was the only person he could trust to tell this to. i really did tell him as sweetly as possible that he needs to figure things out, but he doesnt seem to understand that what he did happened to me.

im considering going over and just punching him in the face...but im not sure i can look at his face, much less touching it at all.

i need feedback on this scenario please! stories/advice/sympathy is always welcome!

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A female reader, Straight Up United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

Straight Up agony aunti think you should forget about him alot of males don't admit that there gay and that is definately a gay act don't listen to his lame excuses move on a get better

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntTo be honest, you're well out of this one, how can he call you immature when he used a dead relative as an excuse!? Go get yourself a hot, straight guy =)

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