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30-35,
*aniegirl
writes:so, i had a boyfriend and it was going really well...except for the fact that i thought he was gay, he was extremely sweet, borderline genius, and had an incredible bod. he calls me one day and tells me hes so sorry blah blah blah, so i tell him i wont get mad just tell me whats wrong. he tells me about the day before when he had had anal and oral sex with one of his friends...this friend was also a guy...he denied that he was gay and blamed it on his grandfather dying the day before that and thought i was being immature by dumping him. he said i was the only person he could trust to tell this to. i really did tell him as sweetly as possible that he needs to figure things out, but he doesnt seem to understand that what he did happened to me.im considering going over and just punching him in the face...but im not sure i can look at his face, much less touching it at all.i need feedback on this scenario please! stories/advice/sympathy is always welcome!
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reader, late2urparty +, writes (25 April 2010):
i am going to tell u this much the boy toy u had was always that way he and his bud have been doing this together for years dont feel bad it was not ur fault and i think he is gay to just break it down for u some guys like to do this on the side and still have a girlfriend its sad but true honey its good u left him
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reader, Straight Up  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 i think you should forget about him alot of males don't admit that there gay and that is definately a gay act don't listen to his lame excuses move on a get better
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (28 November 2007):
 To be honest, you're well out of this one, how can he call you immature when he used a dead relative as an excuse!? Go get yourself a hot, straight guy =)
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