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My boyfriend cheated on me twice so I ended things but now he's begging to come back!

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Question - (25 October 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2014)
A female Nigeria age 36-40, *gyzee writes:

Dear cupid, I'm here again, but I must first thank you all for your tremendous help, I'm glad to be a part of this forum. Pls I seek your advice once again. I've been in a relationship for 7years, and I've lived with him for 2years, my boyfriend is amazing in everyother aspect, but he cheated on me twice in the space of 3years. I forgave him after his constant pleas and a promise it would never happen again. We continued living together for another one year, but I don't trust him anymore,and it makes me unhappy most times, especially when I remember the hurt. I decided to end d relationship, I left last week and since then he's been calling and texting, begging me to come back, he's been making endless promises never to hurt me again, I feel he is really hurting and I love and miss him so much, but I don't want to make a mistake. Pls what do u advice I do? I sincerely need ur help. Thank u so much.

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A female reader, Ngyzee Nigeria +, writes (27 October 2014):

Ngyzee is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you so much friends. I'll do as you've said, I'll stick with my decision and be strong and firm with it. I know it will hurt for a while, but I'll get over him, and I hope he accepts d situation. Thanks again.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (26 October 2014):

person12345 agony auntYou know how the saying goes, "fool you once, shame on him. Fool you twice, shame on you." It doesn't matter if every aspect if perfect when a single HUGE thing is wrong. This isn't like clipping his toenails in bed. You made the right call, be strong. If he won't stop texting and calling block his number, block his emails, block his facebook. He can promise he won't hurt you until he's blue in the face, but his actions say he can't help himself.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (26 October 2014):

Hasn't he already promised you this? Why will this time be different?

Has he soul searched to figure out why he's doing this to someone he loves? Has he found an answer as well as a solution? Is there even a solution?

Even if he's faithful after the second time trust is difficult to come by because deep inside you know it will happen again.

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