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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok here's the deal....Me and my man has a great relationship together except when it comes to being in the bedroom....we have sex about 5 times a week (trying for a baby) but the thing is we never have sex at night in fact he never even comes to bed with me at night at all i go to sleep alone and wake up with him next to me....anyway he only ever wants to have sex in the morning or during the day whenever it suits him tbh Also i never come only came 3 times im always on top and he never lasts long enough and it doesnt seem to bother him ive tried speaking to him about it and he either goes away in a mood or says it does bother him but i make him feel like s**t when i mention it we've tried using toys etc Another thing every time we sleep together i always play with him like give him a hand job to get him in the mood but he never does anything for me i dont know how many times ive said to him adn doesnt bother i do believe it bothers him but for some reason he wont do anything about itSex is important to me in a relationship but the way we are its like its not even worth it I love him with all my heart but the sex is boring if you know what I mean hes good at what he does but cant keep it going he's sooooo selfish about it I dont know what im meant to do help pleeaaaassseeeee Thank you xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe both want a baby infact hes just about as hung up about it as i am
Well i already have two kids though he doesnt have any
But the sex has always been likes this even before we started trying for a baby
I forgot to mention before....im only 21 and he's 30 x
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reader, Battista +, writes (29 March 2011):
Maybe he is feeling like sex is a means to an end, ie. having a baby. This can really take the fun out of things. Maybe he feels under pressure to get you pregnant, and, even though he might of course want to do that, it can make sex feel a bit mechanical.
What are his opinions on the baby thing?
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