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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together 7 months, we both love each other very much and we plan on spending the rest of our lives together. Yet, it seems the past month or so we've just been arguing and fighting over the dumbest things. I'm not sure what to do. We've always had good communication and we do talk about our arguments when we are done. How can I try to stop the bickering? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2007): Yea, Im going through the same exact thing. Its hurting both of us because we love eachother so much. I think it is mainly me, I act immature and dont know how to not argue. i feel like i constantly have to to get his attention or something. this is taking a toll on him and he has told me that if it continues this way, he is losing faith in our relationship.
Try to figure out what it is thats causing it, and deal with it maturely, instead of pouting wishing he would fix it
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2005): I suspect that you argue about inconsequential things to avoid aruguing about serious issues that you differ on, or fear that you disagree about. Get couples counseling, from a marriage counselor, or social worker. You may think you have good communications, and to you this may seem true.But a third party can make a better determination of just how well each of you communicate with the other, and help you address this problem.
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reader, Tim +, writes (28 November 2005):
 One of u need to grow up and when one is fighting he or you better change to topic and dont press things too much otherwise this relationship will not have a happy ending, try to find the cause, make sure there is not any other pretty girl in his life ;(Good luck
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