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My boyfriend and I are starting to be sexually active, but now despite asking for these things he tells me I shouldnt be like this!

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Question - (6 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

well, me and my boyfriend have been going out now for 3 months and we've started to do some stuff.. however the other day i was giving him a hand job and he just pushed me aeway nd said 'no, babe i dont want you to be like this'. im confused like he's done this a few times but only after what ever we did ; kissin my chest.. fingering handjobs etc .. why is he sayin this? and why does he still ask for the stuff he says he doesnt want me to be doing?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010):

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2010):

because he is not actually in fact ready, he thinks he is, then feels guilty and goes all frigid about it

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