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My boyfriend and I are dry humping because we don't want to have sex yet. How can I get mote pleasure form this?

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Question - (5 November 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay. So me and my bf are both 16. weve been together for about 6 months now. we are both virgins but weve started dry humping, but we dont feel much. Im not quiet comfortable with just my underware so i usually wear leggings and a shirt. he u usually has shorts on.

We both want to stay pure to marrage and what not but we like the idea of doing something still...I know he gets pleasure from it but I dont get much. Whats a way to get more pleasure

P.S. please dont say im to young to be asking this. thats really annoying and its not like im having sex and nor do i want to yet.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012):

Is there more than one way to sit on a couch? Your lack of creativity is strange. Im not gonna pull out the kama sutra you can buy a book for that. Its not about positions and clothing. Its about the love you two share. Kissing and humping should feel natural when your ready for it. Its like explaining the dynamics of walking. When your ready it should just be normal and natural if you are thinking too much about the details how can you get lost in the moment and enjoy it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2012):

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no i dont enjoy "playing with my self down there" and I DONT play with my self. but are there any more postions then just me layin on top of him or him layin on top of me??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2012):

Do you enjoy playing with yourself down there? I'd suggest you find what you like first then show him. I remember when I was about 7 or 8 and the first time I rode my vinyl beanbag chair. It got all warm and so did I. Funny thing I like dry humping better with tight jeans on. The fabric feels better. It also might help if you ride his thigh more since its easier to get between your legs. Good luck and try to enjoy whatever you do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2012):

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Well ive gotten it to "feel good" once but we wanna try some other ways then just laying on top of eachother are there anyother ways to do it?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (6 November 2012):

Honeypie agony auntI have to disagree with Sweet-thing.

Oral is sex too. It may not be with penetration but it is still sex.. ORAL SEX..

The reason he gets off on it is because he gets "rubbed" the right way and in the right place.. Maybe you need to figure out your "sweet-spot" and show it to him.

Nothing wrong in wanting to wait. There really is no hurry.

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (6 November 2012):

Sweet-thing agony auntTry oral sex. Much more exciting and still keeps your virginity intact.

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