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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:well, my boyfriend and I have known each other for 1 year and been together for 6 months, i meet him right before moving back from a other state. we have a good relationship we get along very well. we are currently live 9 hours apart, we are planning to get marry next and me moving with him because he has a very good job. we love each other very much. the thing is now we both have very strong attitude, even though we really dont fight, im scared that when we moved in together our attitude would crash. we both are outspoken, that make a little scared. what should i do about me feeling scared of moving in with my boyfriend?
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (20 December 2012):
I think you should both see a counselor who specializes in assisting couples with communicating. You can both learn how to approach and discuss delicate topics without stepping on each other's toes.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (20 December 2012):
 HI
It's a big step when you get married and move in together, and it is only natural to be scared and question yourself about how it will work. Try to keep yourself busy and focus on the now rather than on the what if's. I'm sure you will both have a happy life together, every relationship will go through a nursing stage and it will make you both stronger as a couple. So be happy, look forward to your new life together and put any doubts behind you after all you love him right ;)
Mandy x
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