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writes:oh man, okay. so i've been with my boyfriend for a bit above a year now, and i thought i could trust him more than anything. when i logged into my facebook today it said my account had been accessed by someone in the exact same location as where he lives, AND he's the only one who knows my password anyways. not like i have anything to hide, it just really really makes me mad that he logged into it and was going through my stuff, pretty rude and makes it seem like he doesn't trust me. i don't know how to talk to him about it, but i want to. i'm not sure how to approach the situation. any help or advice is appreciated. thanks. :T
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 It was unnecessary for him to go on your Facebook, but it might have just been curiosity, rather than that he doesn't trust you. Hey, it may even have just been that because he knows your password, he thought he'd just try it out, rather than he wanted to snoop.How does he know your password anyway? I don't think it's necessary for couples to share passwords, especially when they don't need to access each other's accounts.Anyway you can ask him if he logged onto your Facebook, and let him know that it kind of bothers you because you don't see any need for him to go on there. He should be able to understand. And change your password if you don't want him doing it again.One last thing... does Facebook actually let you know if your account has been accessed in a different location?? I wasn't aware of this? :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2011): I had the exact same thing happen to me when i used to be on FB. Thing is though i deliberatley used to do stuff and write things to piss the person off cos i knew they were peeking into my account.hahaha
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 I can understand that he has done something to upset you, but maybe he was just curious.Has he shown any signs of not trusting you???Please remember, people with nothing to hide hide nothing. And if everthing on FB is really so innocent, surely its not worth getting upset about?
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reader, Amantha +, writes (3 March 2011):
 You can start by asking him if he went on your facebook and if he said yes just explain to him that you don't appreciate him going through your facebook with out you knowing. Explain to him you have nothing to hide you just don't understand why he doesn't trust you. I'm sure eveything is going to be okay just handle it in a calm matter. Use reasons to help you out with it and thing should be good.
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