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My bf took this other girl for a drink and now I am constantly worried and I am still hurting! What can I do?

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Question - (16 April 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, Puicks writes:

A few months ago my boyfriend went out for a drink with this young girl he met on the bus. He said it was just a drink and nothing else. I have managed to cope for a few weeks now but i really can't cope anymore am so fed up of thinking about the situation, i skip work just to be with him. I really do not know what to do becuase i love him but yet am hurting still and always ringing his phone and if i get no reply i get anxious. Its baddddd. please help.

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A female reader, sonam Bhutan +, writes (17 April 2007):

sonam agony auntMay be you are being too possessive if you love him trust him, and if you want to ask him about the gal i recommand you not to ask directly just beat around the bush and do if he have any excuses or if he starts shouting on you then he really have something with that gal and you should really talk to him seriouly.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007):

Maybe it was just a drink but if it bothers you this much, you should talk to him, tell him how you feel.See what his reaction would be like. Have you noticed any stange behaviour from him ? just look for signs of cheating. Maybe he's not, if both of you are still the same, I would say there is nothing to worry about.Ask him if he keeps in contact with her, or have he seen her since. I hope that your problem is solved soon. Don't worry sweetheart, for all you know,it was just for a drink, he didn't have to tell you about it but he did and that's a good sign.So chin up and put a smile on your face.

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