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My b/f says "stress" is the reason we don't have sex, but he still has cybersex...

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Question - (28 May 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2005)
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I meet this guy since 10 month. Our relationship is great except we are not having sex anymore, rarely . We used to have it every day. When I ask him he says 'stress from work' but he masturbates on the net every night and don't have a problem with that.

I asked Are you not attracted to me? He said No, I love you, but because of stress (I can't understand why) I don't have sex with you anymore. But on the other hand have cyber sex with other guys.

I don't know really what's going on and he says there is nothing wrong. I really need help. I love him and I know he love me. What happened since a few month? I don't know.

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A reader, schlottjl United States +, writes (30 May 2005):

schlottjl agony auntI cannot tell if you are gay or straight from your question but regardless, the reason he is not having sex with you is because he has "spent" his "Lovin" for the day outside the relationship.

Very few men can regularly go for more than one or two romps a day when they have a life outside the home. Most that can have sex more than once a day can't reliably do that daily over any long period of time. They need time to reload!

If you are a female, and he is having cyber sex with men on line, I hate to tell you that he is gay and not into you. If you are a man, he is cheating on you with other men.(Same goes if by guys you meant others.) Either way, don't analyze him, just detatch and move on. What he says does not matter, if he does not act like he loves you then in your world, he does not.

If he was looking at porn and still able to meet your needs, that would be fine, but any activity that takes him away is a betrayal to you and your feelings.

Good luck!

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