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writes: I find my bf sexually attractive, but his recent religious convictions make him not want to do anything physical, which is perfectly fine with me, although it's difficult sometimes I have to admit--but whenever we go out for the day and come back to his house, we almost always end up watching tv in his bed--on top of the covers, fully clothed, nothing sexual--but we sometimes end up making out there too, which makes it even more difficult to resist touching him--is there a way we can bypass this bed situation? Watching tv is just our way of relaxing and his bed is the only piece of furniture in his room--no desk or chair or beanbag chairs even--any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
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reader, Monk +, writes (1 December 2005):
You're boyfriend is likely a closet case. He's gay. And if he's not gay, then he's a religous fanatic. Either way, stay away, unless you're not into sex with a guy or you enjoy living under a rigid set of rules.
Plenty of straight religious men out there and by and large, if they're given the chance, they'll pull out that pecker and do something with it. They'll do the dirty deed or at least find a way to cheat, like oral sex only. If he's straight, then he'd at least masturbate with you. Naked, both of you. What's this sometimes making out business? He'd be putting the moves on you all the time.
Remember, there are a lot of closet cases out there. Some of them figure it out when they're in their 40s. Some never.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (1 December 2005):
Perhaps sit on the floor? Put the tv in another room? Drag chairs in from another room? there are lots of things you can do, just use your imagination. good luck :)
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