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My bf of 8 years doesnt seem interested in "us" anymore,any ideas what I can do ?

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Question - (19 March 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 8 years. I love him dearly but think that he is no longer interested in "us".

We do not have any sexual relationship as his usual excuse is, he's tired. He does work really long hours, so understand that he is probably tired.

He doesnt say the usual "I love you's" or even give me a kiss anymore. It seems to have gone flat over time.

I wouldnt dare cheat on him because I love him, but I find he is making loads of excuses for not coming to visit me. The primary excuse being I'm tired or I've had a bad day, I just want to go to my bed.

Any idea's? I know he's not cheating, but would be quite grateful to get a guy's point of view too!

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (20 March 2007):

nologo agony auntOkay,here is a guy's point of view.

First, I don't think he has any reason to cheat on you.

Second, if you cheat on him it means the end to your relationship.

Third, working long hours is a simple excuse for not to be close to you.

Probably he lost interest in you, because this relationship became too stable.

Many people don't want changes, because they are satisfied with what they have in their life.

I think he feels comfortable with current situation, any changes to this relationship will not help.

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