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writes: I met a man two months ago. He told me he wasn't "out" yet but was ready to come out soon, so we saw more of each other and a relationship soon started. I then learned that he isn't ready to come out. I know it must be hard for him coming out but when we go out clubbing he is very affectionate to everyone, gay, stright, male or female. He doesn't pay me much attention at all. I don't expect him to snog me, just want him to treat me as a friend at least. I feel really happy seeing that he is loving to his mates and sad when watching him hug and kiss his friends and not even speaking to me much. His friends now know about us too. When I ask him about it, he says do that even with women. I dont know what to think or feel, and that's my problem, I feel a lot. I feel needy and I'm not, just want to feel like he's interested, by showing me somehow. I want to leave but I dont want to leave. Ahh!
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reader, MexicanLuverMan +, writes (29 June 2005):
The problem here isn’t you, its him. You need to tell this guy straight up act like you know me in public! If he is ignoring you or something along that line when you two go out he is obviously not caring for you. He needs to understand and get over it. You're his girl and need as much attention as anyone else he converses with. Talk to him and let him know what you feel because he will continue of you don’t speak and you will be the one who ends up getting hurt each and every time.
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