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writes: Me and my bf have recently become an item, but i dont know if i am get messed around. wen i am with him things are good but when i leave him it feels like i have to nag him to c him again. he's always saying 'sorry if im being weird i just get down sometimes'. im worried if we'll last and y is he being so distant? he was the one who asked me out and it feels like im putting in all the work.ive always got to go up for cuddles i just feel down all the time now. shud i stay with him? what should i say to him and how do i approach it? thanx all answers will be much appreciated! Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): This one depends upon just how much you really like him and how old you are. I think you sound quite young, i could be mistaken. Do you have to have cuddles? Why don't you back off a bit and see his reaction. Do you want to feel this way, everyday? NO! Why does he announce he is being weird cos he gets down sometimes. I want a bloke to feel on a high just because he is with me. Step back. Ask yourself: Is this for me? Will he change? Do i want to go through a life of misery? THE ANSWER SHOULD BE STARING YOU IN THE FACE. There are loads of gorgeous blokes out there, just waiting to meet someone like yourself. So don't throw yourself away. Give him a chance and if things don't pick up then walk away. Take care.
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