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My BF checks out other girls and I think that he's into my friend. Help!

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Question - (9 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2008)
A female New Zealand age 16-17, anonymous writes:

i have a great gorgeous bf who says he loves me and tells me im beautiful all the time and has never ever insulted me and weve been together for like a year

but one thing i dont like about him is that when we go out and thats not that often he checks out other girls..

one time i always remember even though i dont want to is when we were at a party and sitting on a bed together and talking. my friend was across the room in front of us and did her hair in the mirror.

i was talking to my bf and he was staring right at my friend and i didnt really mind that that much because shes my friend.. but he didnt even seem to be listening to me at all and that bothered me of course! i dont think he really was because after i finished he was just like "yeah.." after a while. that really hurt me and was really confusing. my friend didnt notice this.

later in the car my friend was asking my bf simple questions all innocent just to make conversation and i was fine with it. what i wasnt fine with was how my bf reacted. when he answered he sort of stumbled on his words and laughed almost nervously. that was really confusing and almost hurting too because hes not usually like that and it doesnt seem like hes into her or anything.

so i think my bfs into my friend and i dont like when he checks out other girls!

what should i do?

of course if i ask him hell deny it whether he likes her or not and if he confessed he did like her well it would be bad!

and i dont want to get all naggy and jealous and insecure because apart from that hes a great bf

how do i know for sure if hes into her or not?

what should i do??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

haha to the poster about two choices

i chose the first!

and ive talked about it to him and he says hes sorry and everything and seems pretty true

i wont be able to truly tell for a while though as im busy with my drama group making a film but when we next meet up i will see what happens!

thanks for your posts!

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A female reader, Teacake United States +, writes (9 December 2008):

Teacake agony auntWelcome to the annoying world of men!

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