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30-35,
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writes:Hey i need help, i have a best friend and shes amazing and i really like her( and by the way im bi and she knows) but she doesn't know that i like her but thats not really my problem.Her boy friend broke up with her like 2 weeks ago and she was all depressed about it and he made it out like it was her fault. the reason why is cuz theres an overly complicated story with her and his dad and some pics he sent her. when she got the pics she was all wrieded out and told him and his mom and he said he was sorry that his dad did that to her( it happened before too) and then they were ok. but then his mom talked to him and made it seem like she wanted the pics which she didn't (and his mom always got him and her into fights so this was just like what she would do) so he told her he wanted a 'break' and they've been going out for 2 years. she was so confused cuz didnt really know why he broke up with cuz hes telling people one thing and her something else.But now that some of the dust has settled they are kinda ok and they're talking which is good and they're going to prom together. but he thinks by prom they should get back together but she doesn't know if she even wants to get back with him, i mean she does but then she doesn't. she knows it would never be the same between them.I guess my question how do i deal with this?!? i really care about her but i have no advice to give her and i don't want to tell her that i really really like her cuz thats just too much for her to handle.Help!!! I really need cuz im so lost and don't want to lose her!( and sorry for the writing i just need to sort things out in my head)
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reader, Emmy-Lou  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 Ask your friend what she really feels in her heart.Would it be such a great loss is she never got back with him?Will he be funny if they break up for good?Just sit her down and ask her what she REALLY wants.Hope this helps and good luck.
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