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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I broke up with my babys daddy recently because he does not have a job and because he never asked me if i needed anything or helped me. I am six months pregnant and he still has not got a job he sits there and lies to my face saying there is no jobs when i get job offers myself all the time. He never once asked me if i needed anything or even checks on me. He is more concerned if i love him than our daughter. He does not even know we are having a girl! He never asks about the baby...just about me and him. my question is how do i get him to understand that i am done with him and if he does not want to help me with the baby...he will have to eventually through child support?
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 You should see this man as the sperm donor only. He is not exactly boyfriend of the year and demonstrates his immaturity by failing to secure to financial future of his child, and prioritising his needs. We all date losers sooner or later, so don't feel bad and you do have a lovely baby on the way who will change your life forever. Just stay away from him in the future. You should get child support agencies involved as you will need help once the baby arrives whether your boyfriend agrees or not. He can choose to see the baby if he wishes, but if you take him back then it is like you are saying his behaviour is ok. If you don't get tough, you will be left holding the baby, the bills and the second baby (him).
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