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30-35,
*egitXan
writes:A guy I didn't expect to, asked me out, when I am already in a relationship with someone else. I told him I'm already committed and suggested if he wanted we could just remain friends. Now my boyfriend thinks that I shouldn't have "encouraged " him and should just ignore him. The first guy wants to be friends with me, and my boyfriend hates him just on principle.What am I supposed to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (10 July 2010):
 Try to understand how your boyfriend feels. What if a pretty girl asked him out. He refused but offered friendship. They are now friends and are hanging out. You know she wants him and wants more then friendship. Would you be ok with her spending time with your boyfriend?
I would suggest talking to your boyfriend and it probably wouldn't be a good idea to hang out with your new friend. Let's be honest, since he asked you out he wants more then friendship.
Good Luck! I hope everything works out well for you!
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