A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:this is now getting 2 my nerves,my boyfriend is soo unromantic,like on valentines,he didnt get me anything,i feel so sad and jealousy when i see how other gals r treated special.what can i do to change him and upgrade him because this sometimes affects our relationship....please help bearing in mind we r soon considering 2 settle down 4 marriage.....
View related questions:
jealous Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, shiraz *  +, writes (16 February 2009):
hiyah if your unhappy with what you have, however big or small the problem, avoid marraige for that little bit longer. its best to sort the situation rather than confusing it twice as much. hes not the only guy to be like this, its pretty normal. obviously at this time a lot of people are loved up and it seems everywhere you go is like a couples united ceremony but you have to see beneath that. no relationship is perfect although it may look it on the outside.
valentines is the perfect time for 'celebrating' your love and youd be surprised how many men forget (given the 3 week advanced warning).
you cant change a person, you shouldnt need to. simply talk to him, thats the only way forward. tell him how you just want that little bit more, not a lot just sometimes for him to surprise you and make you feel special as you think your loosing that in your relationship.
be honest with him tell him what your really feeling its the only way it will get sorted as hinting wont work be out straight with it. best of luck xxx
A
female
reader, penguin64 +, writes (16 February 2009):
 I think you need to tell him how you feel because he's the one that has the best answer for you out of everyone especially as you see such a serious future with him. At the end of the day if hes not romantic... but you want that, then maybe it isnt for you. BUT, it could just be that he doesn't know that you think its important or he's just being a bit lazy. xx
...............................
|
