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*ceberg
writes:i started dating this guy he is 21 and i am 18 my mum has met him but doesnt know that i am dating him.he took me back to his house and we had anal sex on our first date, we kissed and snogged and i given himm a blowjob. i have 2 questions:how to i tell my mum that i am dating at 21 year old?and is it ok for me to date an 21 year old
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reader, iceberg +, writes (13 August 2011):
iceberg is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks
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reader, daisymeg +, writes (12 August 2011):
Hello, personally i don't think the age gap is a big deal its only three years difference. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with a 18 year old dating a 21 year old. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2011): Ugh, there are three years between you. That is NOT an age gap relationship. You have nothing to worry about there.
As for your mother, you'll tell her when you're ready to tell her.
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reader, clutchcargo  +, writes (12 August 2011):
 1. You are 18 of legal age for many things. One at the top of the list is permission to talk to your mum about a new boyfriend.
2. See 1 above.
Now for some unsolicited advice. Anal sex on the first date has many danger signals.
1. How do you spice it up from here. Most posters think that anal sex is as spicy as it gets without a third person in the bed.
2.After reading comments about what men consider "wife material" anal and oral sex on the first date does not qualify. You may have already put yourself in the shag only category with your new BF.
3. Did you use protection?
4. An 18 year old who isn't comfortable talking to her mum about a new BF probably isn't mature enough to be having sex.
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (12 August 2011):
you are 18 you are a adult now its only 3 year of course its ok
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