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Most guys do like cuddling or is it just a girl thing?

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Question - (29 May 2008) 12 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2008)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

Do guys like cuddling?

I'm seeing this guy but since he lives 2hrs away from me it's been a little difficult. We usually end up watching tv or a movie at his place for part of the time that we're together when I go to see him and when that happens we end up cuddling for quite awhile. I love cuddling with him! It just feels so nice! It warms me up, he's so soft and I sometimes I could just fall asleep with him holding me.

The only thing is I'm not sure if he likes it. I think he does because if he didn't he wouldn't do it right? But I was just wondering if most guys do like cuddling or is it just a girl thing?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008):

You've given me such hope.

I finally have full time employment so I about to file for divorce. We've been married for over 24 years.

Shortly after our first child was born, I finally got the guts to tell my husband that I wanted more affection. He told me that if it did not lead to sex, that he wouldn't do it and I was a tease.

Our sons are very affectionate. They give me hugs all the time and they're very cuddly with their girlfriends.

I am not in a hurry for a new relationship. I don't want to choose poorly again. I hope that when I finally do have a new relationship, that he will like to cuddle. I miss touch so much.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands + , writes (20 June 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntI like it that she cuddles if that makes sense.

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A female reader, sofiamorgan United Kingdom +, writes (19 June 2008):

sofiamorgan agony auntNearly all guys (although they won't admit it!) love cuddling. I love cuddling up with a guy, everyone needs a cuddle from time to time!

Meh wish I had a bf to cuddle with...oh well...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

Yes actually guys love cuddling. If they didnt like it then why would they make the move to cuddle like put there arm around you. GUys love having girls lay on em. trustme

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Aww, that is so cute everyone! Thanks a lot for replying.

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A male reader, Ryuk22 United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2008):

Ryuk22 agony auntI love cuddling :D. Its so ncie and reassuring, to just cuddle and nothing else. Its nice. :)

Guys like cuddling as much as girls. Infact, I like cuddling mroe than my gf tbh.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

They're all softys really :] my guy loves to cuddle, and it sounds like yours does too :] so stop worrying honey and enjoy it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

I am a 22 year old guy, and I like cuddling. Truthfully I like it more than sex sometimes. But remember not to cuddle 24/7 because than it may be smothering. But to cuddle while watching a movie, or just relaxing for a few hours is always welcome, or so I think.

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A male reader, B-NaneR Canada +, writes (29 May 2008):

B-NaneR agony auntI can tell you, as a guy myself, I love cuddling with my girlfriend. Its definitly not just a girl thing. My g/f is the same way, and she sometimes does fall asleep in my arms and i love it. Seems to me that your guys loves it too :) N worries, if he always cuddles with you, then that meens he loves it and loves you.

take care

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

My hubby loves to be cuddled, and he is a lovely cuddler, so no it isnt just a girlie thing, thank goodness.

take care

xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

Simple answer - yes.

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A female reader, Tremor Australia + , writes (29 May 2008):

Tremor agony auntIf you always end up cuddling, then of course he enjoys it! As you say, if he didn't like it, then he wouldn't do it.

Everyone likes a cuddle now and then, including guys. I know for a fact that my boyfriend /looooves/ to cuddle.

There is nothing quite like being all wrapped up in someone else. =)

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