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writes:This might be a silly question but I am seriously wondering if my friend with benefits might be developing feelings for me.So for the past three months or so he has been very attentive, calling and texting me all the time. He keeps asking questions about my personal life, wants to know about my family, my likes and dislikes.Anything I tell him, he remembers with details and brings up in conversations.Lately, he started saying that he likes me and that he's extremely grateful that we met. He also called me an amazing and special person.He confides in me and tell me all his deep personal secrets.I gather that he likes me but I wonder if there is a way to tell if he likes me as a friend or much more?
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reader, eddie85 +, writes (1 March 2016):
 It certainly sounds like to me he is seeing you as something more than just a booty call. Usually the FWB situation is minimal personal relations and just hooking up when it is mutually convenient for sex. The fact that he is interested in your life outside of the hookups, to me at least, means he might be looking for more. As he ever asked about exclusivity? Is he seeing other people?
While there is no true way to determine exactly how he is feeling but a lot of the signs are there. Perhaps, it is time for you to consider what you think of him and act accordingly.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 February 2016):
 Is there a reason you are both just having sex instead of being in a relationship? Whats holding you back? Talk to him and ask him how he feels, that's the only way you will know where you both stand with each other.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (29 February 2016):
 Are you looking for more than a FWB? If so, talk to him?
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