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writes: Ok, so i met this guy online through a personal ad. hes totally cool and he wanted to hang out almost immediately. he seems kool and he understands that im not just in it for sex and neither is he. i kinda nervous tho. i think about him alot and i dunno whether i should call or wait for him to call. i dont know if i should tell him how i feel or not i mean we only been chatting for like two weeks. its not like im in love with him or anything but i just have this feeling...and i havent felt that way in a long time. im just confused in general about the situation and if anyone has any advice id love u forever!!! thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 February 2008):
 Treat him like a man. Let him do all the chasing and you enjoy his friendship and be positive. If he likes you like honey , he will come back for more..LOL!
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (21 February 2008):
 You've got to let the game come to you, so to speak. If he's a living breathing human male, he'll know that you're interested by your actions. Be attentive and show interest in him and what he has to say, but don't fall all over yourself.
From my personal point of view, I would be scared off if a woman said she loved me after 2 weeks of chatting. But that's me. I'm old school . . . let him do the chasing.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (21 February 2008):
 You are beautiful, if that is your true photo. He would be an idiot not to be pursuing you. Just be sure he is not married, or otherwise attached, and healthy.
I will admit that, in my life, the women who were the most aggressive (flirty) were usually the ones who won my love, but I've figured that I was a bit unusual in that regard. I needed the go ahead, then I would come on like gangbusters. But IF you have already been intimate, then he would know that already. Go with your heart, sweetie, but don't let yourself be hurt. You are too sweet for that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question dont think i will scare him away so soon????
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (21 February 2008):
Nothing wrong about going with the flow, but let him call you, at least most the time. Do not tell him all your feelings right away, they may fade a bit anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): tell him how you feel after all no one should be ashamed of how they feel for the most part people cant really control how they feel just like everyone has different oppinions.being nervous is perfectly normal but unless you tell him you wont know how he feels good luck
-michael
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