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Met a new friend but she hasn't phoned me should I pursue things?

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Question - (8 December 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

im a gay woman in my 30s who has a g.friend but am looking to make friends who are also gay in my area of hampshire.

thing is tho how? also one of my mates who is gay took me to her friends flat who is gay and we got on well, her mate walked me home. she knows i got a girlfriend and did say i could visit her anytime plus we were gonna swap numbers but due to be having a partner i didnt like 2give out a number to a new friend who i only just met through my best mate. anyway she was cool with that and we met again when my mate took me with her to meet her so i thought i would stay in touch with this girl due to meeting her through my best friend and thought we could be friends also/so anyway i went to visit her like she said i could do and she was fine so i gave her my number but that was over a week ago and i havent heard from her. she didnt contact me and i dont have her number and my mate who i met her through hasnt heard from her this week and she did most days since she bumped into her and was back in touch. i would like to here from her as b nice to have a new gay mate. why didnt she call.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2011):

have you ask your mate why her friend hasnt got it touch with ur both.

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A female reader, cmarieky United States +, writes (9 December 2011):

You're still in the early stages of could be friendship. Friendship doesn't happen right away especially when you're both adults and have your own lives and relationships. Allow friendship to happen as they may. She may not be too keen on having u as a friend or she may be the type to not wanna chill with friends much be its good having them. Let her call u when she wills, if u go out of your way to get her friendship then that's odd and may make the lady believe u want some type of intimate or romantic relationship. Enjoy the friends u have if more come, welcome them if they don't come be content......best wishes.

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