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writes:I've always shaved down there. I can't always get the hair completely bald off of the lip area though, so there is always hair though. I recently got in a relationship, and I am kind of worried that the guy might be turned off by a bit of the hair. It's my first relationship and I'm 24... I've always heard from men, or friends that guys only like completely bald. Is this true? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): NO. Not at all. I was scared about the exact same thing when I first started becoming sexually active with my man. When I told him what my problem was, he told me he didn't want me to shave and to this day if I mention that I wanna try to shave, he gets very upset because he likes it natural. I do trim though to make sure its clean. But, I've heard from some guys that having sex with a girl who's completely shaved is like raping a little girl.
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reader, HotGeek  +, writes (19 October 2010):
No, it's not always true. I prefer some hair, maybe not a full bush, but definitely not "Brazilian".
@Mrs-Greg-Sanders: You got it right, one of my ex's was totally shaved, and I did kind of feel like a child offender.
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reader, iloveblue +, writes (16 October 2010):
 It depends on the guy what he prefers. I suggest asking your bf when you think it's a good time to ask. Not all guys like hair down there but not all prefer bald. So you must know what he prefers, that would be the best thing to do then asking everyone and guessing what he might want.Godd luck girl!!
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reader, LavanderGirl  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 In my opinion, it doesn't matter.
Be happy, even if you are hairy down there.
It doesn't matter what other's think. ^_^
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): I vote for closely trimmed. I don't like the look of bald, and stubble causes rashes for both people...not fun. I don't think it matters to most guys
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reader, person12345  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 You should relax a little about how much hair you have. It's natural to have hair there. You're not trying to look 10, you're a mature woman. The only guys I've met who demand a clean shaven girl are the ones who, well let's just say they're not the kind worth dating. Just keep it clean and trimmed, and you'll be fine.
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reader, JoshB667  +, writes (16 October 2010):
It is not true. I for one prefer unshaved. If it is shaved then it is, as you mention, bald.
I prefer to have the hair still on down there because it adds to the intimacy of the moment. From a guys perspective, it provides a unique sensation when you touch it during foreplay, same again when going down, and feeling it against you during sex, oh yes and it looks beautiful. Take these all away and what do you have ?
But that's just me / my own opinion.
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reader, Moonknight  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Air makes no difference, what level of hair you have makes no difference what so ever.
Men are not concerned about "oh wow she's so hairy" the truth is men like something a little different, and get excited by it, being always shaved can become more and typical as you aren't the only female who does it.
So the answer to your question is no, it isn't true.
There are exceptions, where shaving is good, you don't want to become sweaty from excessive hair and sweat brings smell so that's a good reason to keep trimmed up nicely, not bald, just trimmed.
If your going for the bald look take care depending on your body hair type, if you have strong thick hair stands try not to get stubbles, this can be extremely sharp agaisn't a man penis or face, if you have thin hair stands then it's okay to leave a little stub.
Trye growing something and trimming it into a certain shape, MEN loves this! It shows you love your self and it pleases him.
If you ever get a man who says anything insulting about you in anyway down there leave, and leave fast, this is just a socialized insult because you are not "one of them"
No one wants to be a sheep deep down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): No, it's not true.
Try 'neatly trimmed'. You can't go wrong then.
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reader, Ricemonster +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Let's put it this way, personally, I don't want to find an amazon jungle down there, complemented with monkeys, snakes and tissue bits. Hey, is that a roll of tissue, FluffyPie? It has a face! Incredible! ^_^
Umm, yes, so long as it's not a forest, then it's all good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): if some guys like it bald to me it would be like having sex with a 12 yr old or something .. bit weird .. we werent made that way ..
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (16 October 2010):
 No it's not true.
It depends on the guy. Some like it bald, some like it bushy, some don't even care about it. It depends on every guy. But I think most important is that you feel comfortable with it.
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