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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:(Mod Note - Op's own title. Text edited for clarity) can some one be a born reject.guys have always being rejecting me since i was 18 yaers old. that its is me not you routine.the rejection towards me is aggressive, they've treated me like dirt, belittled me,name called,even threatend me which is really scary.all i be doing is talking to them ,being nice not even flirty.i am over weight and short and unattractive looking.i am shy,quiet,i am really confused as to why the aggressive treatment and if i am doing any thing out of the way.i think i have some thing wrong with me that sets off there aggressive behaviour and boasting how many girlfriends they have to me which i don,t understand either.i am giving up on the idea of boyfriends because i always end up aggressively hurt and rejected .guys who this to me don,t even have conscience thanks to this treatment i have ended up in counselling. I find this behaviour towards me is aggressive and cruel.this treatment by men is never ending hated for me.i feel i,ll be never be loved at all.its unfair
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): i'd like more advice beside that
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (9 February 2010):
 Is this one guy in particular that has rejected you?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 February 2010):
I think because you feel so bad about yourself, you're attracting bad guys. Sadly, bad men see underconfident women and take advantage of them. So the counselling is a very good start. You need to build up your own esteem and focus on your own life for a while. They start some new hobbies, and meet guys in different places. There is a guy out there for you. But you need to be happy for yourself before you can be happy with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): orginalbut why this behaviour .this guys aren,t where i live.i,d like guy option since its a guy head i am dealing with
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): Could it be you are in the wrong place? That men at the place where you live do not find you attractive and so they reject you in such a rude manner, even though you are just being nice? They sound aweful, but I dont think that is how men all over the globe behaves. Perhaps you need to move to a place that is more open minded, and with more people so that you do not meet the same-minded people all the time.
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