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csh1983
writes:Where is good place to meet girls for first time?I want move away from internet because it's not doing me any good. But I don't have any friends to go out with if I want to go meet girls.But if I do meet them, what should do first to get them to look at me?Please help.
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reader, penta  +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Here's another thing. Work on your self-confidence. Confidence is very sexy; neediness is a real turn off. Every time I have ever been desperate for a boyfriend it's like they can smell it on me and they disappeared, lol. But when I was comfortable in my own skin, suddenly it was like cats to the tuna can.
Don't worry about finding a girl. Get out and have fun. Don't worry that you're having fun by yourself right now. Girls will be attracted to the fun, and to the confidence.
Good luck.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (14 September 2007):
 Finding your perfect partner on online dating sites is a lottery. There are lots of people out there who are on these sites only looking for one thing, spoiling it for the genuine people like us. I have done online dating and have had a few bad experiences ie predators who give you all the crap saying you are beautiful etc etc. Once they get what they want thy move onto the next person. If you decide you want to carry on dating in this fashion, my advice is vett these women very carefully like you are interviewing them. That way you can sort out women from the girls so to speak, finding out what their real intentions are. Have a photo or two of yourself on your profile, say what you specifically looking for ie a serious relationship, a lady who is honest and caring. You get the picture? Good luck my dear and let me know if you have found your Miss Right. Dusky xx
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reader, csh1983 +, writes (14 September 2007):
csh1983 is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok thanks for the advice. I tried to get a girl from the bus stop and shop and it failed becuase I think I was tring too hard and it put her off me, even if I was just trying to be her friend. And now I think I lost her for good.
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reader, penta +, writes (14 September 2007):
Get out and get involved in something you enjoy -- a club, a sport, a chorus, a dance class, something. Girls do things they like to do. And if you meet a girl there, then you'll know the two of you will have something in common right of the bat. Good luck.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (14 September 2007):
 us girls are difficult to find if you look in the right places. don't aim to meet girls when you are blind drunk and splurring your words. we tend to shy away from that because it comes across as though you're only after one thing. if you don't really have any friends to go "out on the pull" with, why not try speed dating or is there any women at work or through work you could meet? sometimes, girls turn up in the most unlikely situations, when you're not trying to hard. if you go out with one thing in mind, it leaves you disappointed when you supposedly fail. anything worth holding to cannot be forced. just be patient, good things come to those who wait. love will find you. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2007): Try public places like the cafe, clubs and party's. There are soo many ways of finding people. Ever heard of speed dating? Or get friends to hook you up. Make sure you give the lady eye contact and a smile, works like a charm... most of the time ! Hope this helps hun xxx
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