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writes: Hello..Well i need some advice. My ex and I split about 9 months ago we've had our ups and downs since - but recently we are getting along great. Things are really lookin up - :o). The things is i feel a weird about things, we get on well when we're 2gether and its still obvious to me that he still cares for me..there is still chemistry there...We have been spending alot of time together recently..like we used to - kind of sleeping 2gether has occured and it has the whole time since we split up.Now i feel like i'd like to know how my ex feels i feel he is not being honest with himself and denying that he still has feelings for me - people keep saying we should just get back 2gether but my ex never wants to talk about it when the conversation starts..Can anyone help??What d'you think is going on?What shall i do, is anything?.. i mean im not even sure if i really do want to b with him - but i feel that our realtionship would be better now we've had this space..
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reader, Andy J +, writes (21 February 2006):
 My x (just recently) messed me around with sex, i was very confused for a few days, the only advice i can give you on this one is you need to decide exactly what it is you want and if you do want to be with him, then sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel and ask him how he feels. The only way.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (21 February 2006):
 Your 'boyfriend' is being honest with you, he likes the 'relationship' just the way it is. That is why your 'relationship is going so well. He has his bed-mate and his freedom to date, he couldn't be a happier man. A common lie women try to convince themselves of, Chemistry equals caring, trust or love. Chemistry is sex, no heart needed.You have to ask yourself if this 'relationship' is what you want in the way of a loving relationship, for it is not going to change.
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