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*nesouthbabe
writes:Me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 6 months ago because he wanted to see what else was out there, but he said he still loved me very much and for me to give him the time he needs. Well I have tried to but I have sent him so many emails until we talked last and I haven't talked to him since. I really feel in love with him and want to work things out but I don't know how to because we talked last at the beginning of the month and he has a girlfriend. He won't talk to me and I think it's because he don't want to fall for me again because he told me we could be friends and then after we broke up I haven't talked to him. What should I do? Please help me get him back. I reallly love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2007): hi i think im like 2 years younger than u or something! im not a teen yet but still u should liten to this advice dont think that just cause im a lil younger thann doesnt mean im not good at love advice ok! anyways about ur problemo, first of all it really really sounds that ur desperat for him maybe not but it really sounds like that! that is not what a guy wants! ok if u really want him and need him then just act normal, pretend nothing happened and that u r just friends but here is the catch each week or so start flirting with him little by little then if he really loves u then he will come to u and be flirty and little by little he will start loving u back! if it doesnt work then it wasnt ment to be but remember there is alot of fish in the sea! so dont be desprate ok! hope u like my advice!:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2007): You CAN'T get him back. Sorry, but breaking up because he wanted to see who else was out there, and telling you he still loved you was a sop to soften the fact that he was ending it with you.Otherwise, if he was completely happy with the relationship he would not have been looking around!He now has another girlfriend, and in any case, it has been six months since you and he ended it. You would do better to recognize that it is over and to move on with your life. It will hurt less if you can stop thinking that you love him - obviously, he no longer feels the same about you, so have some dignity and leave him behind!
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