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anonymous
writes:starting maybe january this year, i started getting really lonely, what with my friends and i moving in different directions. consequently, i started going into chat rooms. at first, it was just for fun, but then i started having cyber and phone sex. after a while, i started talking to this guy, and we ended up going out. we're pretty serious, now, but i still find myself having cyber and phone sex with the same guys from before and new, random guys. ive always been mature for my age, which makes it hard to fit in. but, could my new habits be a sign that im not mature enough to have a relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, guys. It's good seeing two different points-of-view. Both of you have helped a lot, but hopefully i fit more in with the first reply lol. Thanks, though. I'll let you know what happens.
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reader, Samantha x  + ♥, writes (12 July 2009):
 It could be. Or it could be that you aren't ready for a serious relationship yet. Or maybe you aren't that into your boyfriend.
I think only you know the answer to this. It might take some digging to find the answer inside of you, but I think it is there.
Do you want a serious relationship right now? Or do you not feel ready? Do you just want to have fun?
If so, then I think you should consider telling this guy you are dating that you aren't ready for anything serious. You could perhaps suggest being friends for now. You don't necessarily have to tell him about the cyber and phone sex you have been having with other guys. But I think, to be fair on him, and for yourself, you may need to say somthing.
Good luck, and I hope you find the answers you are looking for. x
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reader, xnickx + ♥, writes (12 July 2009):
 Oddly enough, i have the same problem... i am very mature for my age, making it hard to fit in, friends split in different directions and such...
Same age group too...
Anyways. No, you asking a question like that, in my oppinion, means your mature enough to be in a relationship. You just need to find a way out of your habit before you consequently upset your boyfriend, which may end you up just deeper in your habit.
Hopefully i was of some help... even if just a little.
Nick
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