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Major crush going on here. How do I handle it?

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Question - (16 February 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok can you please help e! this is like a load of little questions in one so i'm sorry if its confusing. I have never had a proper bf befoe and never been bothered about one until i met this lad. We are friends and see each other most days at school/college and are in the same class. Sometimes i really think he likes me and i really like him. I've felt like this for about 3 months ish now but since im starting to realise that maybe he does like me back i'm starting to think do i like him in that way. I know i do and i really wanna be with him but then when anything is showed back i sot of get scared and it makes me feel different. it has got to the point where i can't sleep and sometimes feel sick when i eat because i keep thinking about him. We don't talk and aweful lot but there somethings our friends have been saying that makes me suspicious. So like why do do this? sort of start to feel differently? i have never had a bf before so never felt this wy before and also is rthis just a crush that will go away or do you think i really could love him? When im away from him he's all i think about but when i'm with him i can't help but keep looking at him and i've tried to stop but i don't want anyone to get suspicous. And also we are very different people like he likes things differently, hes religous i'm not but that makes no difference, hes lieks totally different music n stuff to what i do etc. But when he talks to other girls i can't help but feel jealous. Please help me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008):

I had the same problem. I was mates with this guy not that close. i found out he liked me, I liked him to. So he asked me out, I said yes then thats when it started. Like one week we would love each other and then next he just liked me as a mate. I used to think about it alot, it is normal to think like that. If he is your first bf then you will. It doesnt matter that you like different things, it about whats inside. You start to feel like this because he is your first love! You only have a crush but a big crush!

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