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Loved him for 2 years-had sex with him for 1 year...he doesn't want a relationship with me, though! What should I do?

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Question - (4 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *aty1990 writes:

right i'm in love with a guy who i have known for nearly two years and we have been sleeping together on and off for about year but i have fallen in love with him but i think he doesn't want a relationship with me... so what do i do? say to him "its all of me or nothing?" or carry on with the way things are?

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A female reader, katy1990 United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2007):

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katy1990 agony auntthank you for all your help... as for what makes me think he does not want a relationship... well i agreed to just being f**k buddy's i know I'm stupid but when someone is only offering a little bit you take it... when i see him i just cant stop smiling and when he kisses me the butterfly's i feel make me wanna just faint! I've always been very anti love and have never felt this way before [just so you know your not dealing with some silly little girl who is in and out of love every other week]... i'm very loud and speak my mind and normally wear the trousers in the relationships but with this guy i don't scream and shout and demand my own way and all my family and friends think hes perfect for me... and so do i. i'm too scared to confront and risk loosing everything.....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007):

this happened to me but i'd had enough after 2 months! i made him choose me or nothing, he chose nothing, but atleast that way i dint get too close to him. while hes messin with u, mr right could be passing by, dont waste your time on losers.

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntWhat makes you think he doesn't want a relationship with you any more? Is he acting differently towards you?

Eve

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007):

Hey my name is amanda .You know I hate to tell you but I think he just used you. I know it's not easy but you need to find someone who wants to love you and spend time with you. You might think this guy is the only one you'll want but when you find someone else you gonna look back and laugh and going to wonder why you let any tears fall cause of him. Ok good luck bye!!!

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