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writes:am i in love???i(19) have a brilliant boyfrend(23) for the last 6months. we work together. they have been the best 6months in my life.he treats me good,hes kind,honest,genuine,tall,handsome,but a bit too quiet and shy.i love him and he loves me too.he is buying a house next summer and wants me to move in with him.i said yes of course.he says ''i can see us growing old together'' and i agreed.i really do love him but i cant stop having fantasies of my ex boyfrend(he is our boss,36 and married with 2kids)i cant get him out of my head and he is so charming and so good looking.he is gorgeous.but i dumped him last year bcoz he almost got me pregnant and suggested an abortion if i was.i was devastated for months i was crying.i lost 5stone and turned to alcohol and drugs.but now i am clean.but he has this charm which attracts me to him.everytime i am at work with my lovely boyfrend i cant stop staring at my sexy ex boyfrend(my boss) so what do i do to get my ex out of my head?i cannot quit my job until my 3year contract is up.i love my new boyfrend but im confused.any suggestions???
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reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (24 May 2007):
 fantasies are fantasies...and as long as noone knows about them, and noone (you!) acts on them, nothing can go wrong with ur pretty much perfect relationship with ur boyfriend!
at the end of the day, you and your boss seem to have had some v bad history so i suggest that everytime you look and think of him, u remind yourself of the reasons why it ended.
nobodys perfect, which is why we find ourselves compairing other guys to your own, but just try to think to the future instead of the past.
let me know what happens
jess xXx
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reader, DV1  +, writes (23 May 2007):
 As long as you're not acting on your fantasies, it's ok. It would be the same thing as him looking at a picture of Katie Holmes, Jennifer Love Hewitt, or Carmen Elektra. You may want to share it with him, but do it lightly.
DV1
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