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Love at first sight. I screwed it up! Now I need help.

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Question - (11 July 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2008)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,

Thx for reading this! I got to know of a sweet girl at school and I really liked her. I've been praying for a chance to meet her and I DID! She gave me her no. first, I did so back. It was magical.

However, I texted general smses like how are you and nveer dared to ask her out! One day, I told her my feelings by texting 'give me a chance? I really like you' and she replied, she wants to be friends. I was a bit sad but I am afraid we can never be friends... She must have freaked out? She never repiled after that... and I never got to see her again. Well what went wrong?

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A female reader, PancakesYum United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2008):

PancakesYum agony auntHm.. Maybe You Seemed A Little Too Forward.

I Know You Said It Was Love At First Sight, I Know How You Feel. But Why Don't You Just Talk To Her And Stuff? Just General Conversation. Get To Know Her A Bit More. She Said She Just Wants To Be Friends. Be Her Friend, Then Try And Build On It. You Never Know, She Might Start To Like You..

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A female reader, pepper27 United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2008):

pepper27 agony auntHi Hunny

Nothing when wrong as you say she may have freaked out a little, Give it a little time hunny and if you get to see her start by saying hi then hopefully she will understand there is no pressure..She may have felt a little under pressure you are both young. Give this a little time and things may work out better dont rush in and be a friend so she gets to know you better love I HOPE THIS HELPS SWEETHEART TAKE CARE LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008):

I don't think anything went wrong as such. When you meet someone new there's either an instant attraction between you or it's a case of 'let's be friends first' and see how it goes. If she want to be friends then that's a good starting point! Romance may follow, but you'll have to be compatible, and there's no way of knowing that without getting to know each other over a period of time.

Don't give up - tell her you'd like to be friends too!

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