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Loosing verginity from fingering before sex?

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Question - (29 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2010)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

ok so i had sex today but my bf has fingered me with 3 fingers before and that made me bleed.

before i had sex for the first time today he fingered me with 4 fingers. it was weird that he could fit that much... so is there something wrong with me? also when i had sex after it didnt hurt at all but im still sore ever since he fingered me and theres blood again, but not from sex...

please help me.

will sex never hurt again?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010):

The vagina is incredibly elastic. How do you think women can give birth? I would assume that your boyfriend's hands are not incredibly large, considering you're between 13 and 15, so four fingers isn't that much, and probably not much more than his erect penis. However, if you're hurting after he fingered you, he might've stretched you out a little bit more than he ever has before. This is normal, and it's normal to be sore a little after events like that.

If you're bleeding a tiny bit after he fingered you, it's fine. Your hymen probably isn't all the way torn, which is why you're bleeding. If you're really worried about being sore, make sure you're being careful and that he's only penetrating you when you're wet enough. Be sure that he washes his hands before he touches you, too, and keeps his fingernails clipped short and evenly.

Sex might not hurt again if your hymen is torn enough now!

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