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Limp after foreplay?

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Question - (25 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay so im 18 years old, and about 3/5 times that im messin around with a girl, i usually get too much into foreplay and exert all my energy and become tired (dry humping for a long time etc) and i guess it tires me out and when we progress and start taking our clothes off about to have sex i become flaccid and have a hard time getting it up. i can a little but im so tired from foreplay i can only get semi's and its hard to penetrate. ive fixed this a few times with lube and got hard as a rock. any tips?

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A male reader, Kenneth United States +, writes (26 April 2010):

Go easy on foreplay. Go for the real deal asap.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010):

It's a very frustrating feeling for the woman when that happens. I think you need to seek medical assistance before it becomes a much bigger problem for you in future. I am saying this because I am in a marriage where this is already a problem, so out of the eight month old marriage, I have not had sex in five months. I basically switched off especially because my partner didn't even think it right to discuss his issue with me. I am now trying to end the marriage. A stitch in time saves nine!

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A female reader, Polaroid93 United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2010):

It might sound stupid but... Being more healthy?? If you do any drugs, even weed you can have trouble keeping it up, maybe eat better or do some excersise? Then see if it's still a problem

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