A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Recently as to last night my gf called me to state that she had been thinkin about going out and seeing the lesbian clubs and bars to meet new people.which i understand she has never been out done it and got the t-shirt.she also dose not know if she will make a mistake there she dose not trust herself and askes mewhat i would do if she kissed someone would i leave herto which i said no its just a kiss but i would not be happythen she asked me what if it was full on i said no cuase then you had no consideration for me at all to do that.she has not had that many relationships and she says she dont want to go out and make a mistake to find out what she has with me was her biggest mistake and regret that she should not of comprimised.and also asked me if she did go out and made a mistake to find out she dont like it would i take her back into my arms.my reply was i cant wait for you while you move on or don't that would be unfairI dont know weather to let her go and see life as she wants to and step back and just let it hurt i've sat up all nite trying to think of a sulution i love her deeply to let her go as much as it hurts i would acept her chocies as all i want for her is to be happywhat do i do as i am lost
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 January 2010):
I would let her go. She's not committed to you fully, otherwise she wouldn't be having this problem. And how long until she can't hold it in? You know in your heart that it would hurt. Better to move on now, than later.
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