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writes:sexual fantasy / fantasies / fetishMy wife has asked me before what kind of fetishes or fantasies I had. My real answer is hot young 18 year old girls. Would a wife really want to know the truth of a fetish or fantasy that has nothing to do with her. She obviously is expecting an answer that involves the both of us. I can't imagine ever telling her. Women, how would you feel if you asked that question and your husband said what i want to say? Do wives want the truth? I don't think so. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): I wouLd not reveal that as it will make her feel insecure!! How would you feel if she said her fetish is hunky 18 year old guys?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): My husband had the same fantaasy. I dressed as an18yo and we had sex it was kinda exciting. Now he has me acting like a younger girl not even gonna tell you the age. But it too is exciting. I thinks you should tell her or show her the poist
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reader, jmac1344  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 My guess is she's hoping it's something she can help you out with.
Telling her you want to have sex with a hot 18 year old girl might lead to you sleeping on the sofa.
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (23 April 2007):
 How would you feel if your wife told you that her fantasy was to have sex with a 18yr old rubgy player with a baby face, muscles to die for and high libido in his prime?
Perhaps a fantasy you could not deliver?
Unless you would prefer a threesome? Be prepared as she might consider doing it with a guy to.
If you tell her your fantasy, her self esteem may be affected.
There must be fetishes you would want to try that you both can enjoy. Let your imagination run wild and make her feel special.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): I don't think you should. at all. maybe she's asking you so she could try and fulfill them (your fetishes).
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): You might want to tell you wife that you have a fantasy of f*ing a virgin, or someone inexperienced. See if she'll agree to role play. You can dominate her through 'teaching' her some new things. I'm not so sure you're fantasy is specific to young, hot bodies as much as it is novice sexuality. It's worth a shot though, and you wouldn't be offending her. Once she's good at acting young and virginlike, you never know where that road will take you.
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reader, Patient1 +, writes (18 April 2007):
 Not just no, but "hell no"! She will never look at you the same again. She'll will probably feel degrated and think that you're a pervert. I think it's great that she's asking you that though. That shows that she's trying to keep the relationship interesting. I'm sure you can think of ONE fetish that involves your wife.......can't you?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 April 2007):
 Oh buddy you'll be in a world of hurt if you spill the beans. Lock those lips and throw away the key.
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reader, chachacha +, writes (18 April 2007):
No, don't tell her the truth.
If she asked about your fantasy, it's probably because she wants to tell you hers and probably to act out on it.
I think you should do more listening to her, and not worry about your particular, unsatisfiable fantasy.
Unless you think she can dress up like or pretend to be an 18 yr old, and that this would work for you?
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