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writes: i just broke up with my bf. im fine with it, but i was wondering how longi should wait before i start dating another guy. i really like this guy but i dont want 2 hurt my ex-bf's feelings. how long should i wait before dating this other guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): I think that you can see another guy whenever you want because in the end its your life and you shoudnt care what other ppl think because u need 2 be happy but if you think that youl hurt your ex or look like a slut then keep your relasionship secret till the times right but dont keep it for 2 long afterall u dont want him 2 date before u so just be 1 step ahead!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2006): Hi, I'm searching for the same answer right now. trying to decide if waiting so that I don't hurt the one I used to be with is worth it anymore. It's hard to know. I think you should look for the answer within you and your situation. Where you are at with the ex, and the new guy. How important each of them are and the type of relationships you desire with both of them. But mostly where you are at. You are the only one who knows all aspects and what you feel right about doing. There is no right answer in my opinion, do what feels right to you.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 hello there,
there is no period a person should take to start dating again its up to u and i dont think u should worry about ur ex bcos breaking up means u guys had parted ways and what u do is ur business not his. just make sure u dont want the new guy to replace ur ex, u need to make sure u are ready to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): There are no rules concerning how long you should wait in order to avoid hurting someone else....if you are feeling fine with your break up, and that relationship was not all that serious for you, I don't see anything wrong with going out on a date just to have fun, but I would suggest you take things slowly and do not try to just jump into a new relationship so that you have time to get to like being alone with yourself so you won't come accross so needy and clingy and desperate-like for a new boyfriend, guys can smell this a mile off!
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