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Just a memorial of an unrequited love.

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Article - (16 March 2015) 2 Comments - (Newest, 18 March 2015)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I miss his smile, his laugh. We talked for hours and laughed so hard. He told me he loved me even though we only knew each other for a short period of time. We confided in each other so many things about our lives. I love his blue eyes and I still crave his touch. He used to text me every morning and tell me I was beautiful. I still crave his body and the way he looked at me. Our lovemaking was amazing and I'll never forget it. But somehow I lost him along the way. I don't know what happened to him. He still told me he loved me and still wanted me, but he talked to me less and less and stopped wanting to be with me. I suppose maybe he found someone new, but I will never know. There was the last day I talked to him and he promised me we would spend the next day together. I never heard from him that day, so the next day I had to end things with a text message because I could not handle the stress of being strung along anymore. I still love him but I know I will move on and be fine eventually. I still crave everything about this man. Everything. I promised myself I would not cry, but here I am, tears flowing, typing this out. Because I am having a weak moment and have nobody to talk to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2015):

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Yes, I don't understand what happened. I fell head over heels for this man after only a couple of weeks and things were great for about a month. Then the last 2 weeks he hardly texted me at all and said he was under a lot of stress because he had lost his job and had to move. I noticed that our sex life suffered as well. I tried to be patient and understanding, and help him through his issues. But he seemed to push me away more. I couldn't deal with the stress of wondering what was going on, and I ended it with a text message since he didn't seem to want to see me after he promised me we would get together. I have never received a response. I asked him more than once if he needed space, and if he wanted to end things, and he said no. That is the confusing part.

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A female reader, BlondeBabe x United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2015):

BlondeBabe x agony auntBeautifully written. I am great believer that we are never really alone and that there is always someone out there you can talk to, even if it is a faceless stranger over the internet. Sometimes, things happen for a reason and when you move on, this will just be a bitter sweet memory.

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