Jealous of new girlfriend's wild year!

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, I've never before classed myself as a jealous person at all ever, but then I guess I've never been in a situation that meant I had to be, until now. In December both myself and my new GF separated from our past relationships and we met each other at a mutual friends wedding in May were we ended up in a caravan for a night of great "fun". Since then even though we are 300 miles apart we've spent every waking hour we can together and it's openly the best, easiest, fun, loving relationship we've both been in as we are similar in ever way from interests to humour to sex drive and enjoyment of exploring each other and getting to know each other better and completely etc. In a relatively short time we've done so much together and have lots of plans made already for our growing future together. It's safe to say that when we were living our post breakup separate lives we both went all out for fun and enjoyment and to get the most out of sigledom while we could, and probably to take our minds off what we had both left behind. Anyway only recently has snippets of what we got up to started to slip out, at first it was just funny references or comments that would leave you guessing but now I've kind of uncovered that my new GF did actually go off the scale (admittedly my scale!) in pleasing herself and was part of everything from threesomes with strangers on holidays, had multiple one night stands with men of all ages, she's 32 but her conquests include a 17 year old etc.. In all up to now I've counted 10 partners in the 5 months from when she separated from her ex.. Anyway, I'm actually scared now to keep digging as I don't know what I'll find or even if I could mentally take anymore?! I've always been realistic, I've always enjoyed sex and harmless one night stands myself when single, and I haven't been a prude Myself since I separated from my ex with a number of partners in my "free" time. My question is this really.. Am I simply just an overjealous fool cos I didn't go as wild as she did, god if that's possible!? Or does anyone else think that her single behaviour is excessive and should I be worried?? She is a lovely open and honest, sometime to honest, fun loving person who gets on with everyone (obviously!) and I love her like crazy and can tell she does me too. I just dont know what to think? Any comments or advice or observations would be great thanks!

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