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female
age
36-40,
*my85
writes:I'm jst going through a break having been together for two years. At the begginning of the relationship everything was great.But as the second year past i found that it felt as though things were missing,i loved and still love my boyfriend but am not 'in love' there are things missing and ive found that through the past 6 months I had been constantly feeling trapped and wanted out of the relationship.In addition to this I had also been looking at other people - not doing anything though! - but this is something I never did at beginning. I also started to feel really trapped and felt stuck in the relationship. I recently ended the relationship but am finding it so hard I miss him and feel heartheche when I think of how we wereand the feeling we had, Im finding it so hard to move on and keep having doubts about whether I have made the right choice - I know things are not as they were.I just wondered if there was wnyone else who has been through this and if they could please spread some light on the situation - Is this doubt and saddness a normal part of the process?Thanxs for your time.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (15 February 2007):
 Of course! It's natural to doubt yourself and feel sad. I'm guessing that even though you remember all the negatives about your relationship you can't really connect with how they made you feel anymore. When we break up with someone all the bad stuff suddenly doesn't feel so bad anymore but if you got back together you'd find yourself feeling it x10! Give yourself some time to get over it. You'll get there.
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