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I've rediscovered my "other man" and now I don't know what to do...

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Question - (6 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

HELP, A few years ago I met a gorgeous man, unfortunately he was in a relationship (and I am married and have been with the same man for 10 years). Anyway this man and I started a sexual relationship and it had the potential to be a lot more than what it became.

Anyway my husband and I moved away and eventually I lost contact with this man. That is until recently when we bumped into each other. He is giving all the signals that he wants the relationship to start up again, which I would love as my husband and I are not going anywhere in the bedroom department.

The thing is because we are both still with the same people who we were with the first time we met. It makes it awkward to contact each other. I now find myself sitting waiting for texts, emails etc and get very stressed, agitated and short tempered if I don't receive one.

I know this may sound silly but I don't know if I am in love with this person, or whether it is pure sexual lust and attraction as just the thought of him gets me as horny as hell. Can someone please help as I have no-one else to turn to..:-)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2005):

To tell you the truth, your husband's been having an affair as well!!

Just kidding, but you must've been shocked and betrayed for a second there, werent you? I really dont know how you can calmly sit on your computer talking about this other guy when you're still married. It's as if it didn't even bother you about you bloody cheating on your husband!!

Karma, my dear friend, karma! If you've never heard of it, you will soon if you don't stop this affair now. If you wanna go with this other man, drop your husband and go for the new guy. If not, just stop the affair. You can't have the best of both worlds. Well, if you think you can, he might be thinking he can as well. You think about it!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2005):

To be honest I'd stick with your husband. This other man might sound like a great idea but really he might destroy your life. Your husband loves you he will give you what you want if you tell him what it is you want. He married you because he loves you! The other man should really no better to come between you an your husband. It might seem like the best thing to do, but stick with your man!

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