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writes:I was seeing this girl recently and we've slept together and kissed etc but the we sort of said lets just be friends cause we were arguing. so we did just that and then a girl started talking to me and we were getting along so we exchanged numbers and decided to meet up. the girl i was seeing went on a night out and got lost so i told her i would meet her and walk her home cause i wanted her to be safe and she was on her own. I met her and gave her a jacket i brought for her and we walked along the canal and was just talking about stuff which we both really enjoyed and she looked very pretty as well, anyway i walked her home and then we left but she kept sending me messages saying how bad she is and stuff for her part in our separation that night.I then met this other girl the day after but i was feeling guilty that i was meeting with her, and we ended up having a great she is very nice and very pretty too and shes a year young than mean whereas the other girl is 3 years younger. we agreed we'd see each other again and hugged by we didn't kiss or anything. But I still have feelings for this other girl but i want to see how things go with this new girl but I don't want to see them at the same time cause i know its not technically cheating but i don't want to be that guy and I have no idea who to choose or anything they're both great and could do with some help finding a way I can decided any advice would help thanks
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reader, Denizen +, writes (14 October 2015):
 You are right to not want to see them both. You may be nervous about telling them that there is another girl on the scene, but that may be the best option for you.
The other alternative is to break off with one of them.
When you come to a fork in the road - take it.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 October 2015):
 "Let's be friends" is probably the dead end statement you could have with someone. You can't backtrack it and if you did it would only create confusion and drama. It's hard to be friends also. I am afraid she's going to create more damsel in distress scenarios where you have to go rescue her and she's always have an excuse to get close to you. You should cut contact with her completely. To stay friends out of guilt is just going to drag this out. With the second girl you should go very slow because no girl wants to hear that you just banged the other chick right before you dated her.
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