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I've met a girl i really like but she says she just wants to stay friends. How can I prove i'm not a waste of time?

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Question - (31 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have met a girl I really like but when I asked her out she said she wants to stay single and just wants to be friends. Now Im wondering if she feels the same way. How can I prove to her that Im not a waste of time?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007):

You can't really persuade her to like you as anything other than a friend, so I wouldn't push it too much. Just stay independant, don't act desperate (women hate that in a man), be happy around her and outgoing. People are most attracted to those who fun to be around - and not miserable. Don't be at her beck and call and make sure you have other friends to go out with. So stay relaxed and happy and you never know, you might go off her and find someone else! Oh, and look as hot as possible - you might need to start taking care of your body and working out. Nothing like looking good to make people drool (sorry, but fact!)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007):

Hmm its sometimes hard to know how someone else feels. How long have you known her for? Maybe she wants to get to know you more as a friend first as that maybe why she said she wants to be single. To show her your not a waste of time and that you really like her maybe you should try and go by her feelings, get to know her as a friend first maybe she will realise your the guy for her.

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2007):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntokay by being there for her, as a friend you are already proving tht your there to stay as such. and if you take what she says seriously as well, maybe this friendship might develop into something more, and if your patient you might just get to see that,as i dont know the girl herself, its tricky to judge...

i just hope everything turns out okay in the end

good luck

xxx

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